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Title: The Paradox of Using God to Run from God

2/23/2024

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In his book "Emotionally Healthy Spirituality," author Peter Scazzero delves into the intriguing concept of using God as a means to escape from God. This paradoxical behavior reflects a common tendency among individuals who seek to avoid facing their true selves and the deeper truths of their spiritual journey.

Scazzero highlights how some people may engage in religious practices, attend church services, and participate in spiritual activities as a way to distract themselves from confronting their inner struggles and unresolved issues. Instead of using their faith to draw closer to God and experience genuine transformation, they use it as a façade to mask their inner turmoil and avoid dealing with their personal growth.

An example that illustrates this concept is the story of Sarah, a devoted churchgoer who actively serves in various ministries within her community. On the surface, Sarah appears to have a strong relationship with God and a deep commitment to her faith. However, beneath the surface, Sarah struggles with feelings of unworthiness and unresolved past traumas that she has been avoiding for years.

Sarah's busy schedule of church activities and religious commitments serves as a distraction from addressing her inner pain and seeking healing and wholeness in God. Instead of allowing her faith to guide her towards self-awareness and emotional health, Sarah uses her religious practices as a shield to run away from her inner struggles.

Peter Scazzero's insights shed light on the importance of authenticity and vulnerability in one's spiritual journey. It is essential to approach our relationship with God with honesty and openness, allowing ourselves to confront our fears, doubts, and vulnerabilities. Only by embracing our true selves and engaging in a genuine dialogue with God can we experience true spiritual growth and transformation.

The concept of using God to run from God serves as a powerful reminder to examine our motives and intentions in our spiritual practices and disciplines. Let us strive to cultivate a deep and authentic relationship with God, allowing His love and grace to penetrate our hearts and transform us from within.
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